[caption] Jenifer Maxson wearing her grandson’s pureed mango, banana and oatmeal with style.
Published in The Shelter Island Reporter, June 26, 2014.
It was a nanny that brought Jenifer Eklund to Shelter Island in 1948. Six decades later, her name is Jenifer Eklund Maxson, and she’s got banana and mango in her hair. And a little oatmeal. She’s just returned from hanging out with a messy-eater--her 10 month old grandson Marco, son of her daughter Karena, and she’s ready to tell it like it is. “Full disclosure is my middle name.”
For 17 years, Jenifer Corwin (as she was then known) taught English and ran the drama program at The Shelter Island School. Many of the seniors graduating this week were her students. And for many of them she is an unforgettable teacher.
Jenifer grew up on Long Island, with two working parents-a relative rarity at the time. When the Eklund family’s nanny, “Aunt Jen” announced that she would be spending the summer at her family’s home on Shelter Island, Jenifer’s parents decided quickly that it behooved them to follow suit. For two decades, the family spent summers on Shelter Island in a big Dutch Colonial house in Silver Beach, “living beyond our means.”
Jenifer said, “It meant summer to me. It was the last place on Earth I envisioned myself living.”
She spent some time at Hofstra, without getting a degree, did some acting, got married, had two daughters, got divorced, lived in Connecticut and then Montclair, N.J. and went through a series of jobs as she struggled to raise her daughters, Johanna and Karena as a single mother. Jenifer described that time as “a humpy, single parent kind of run.” Her brother James Eklund had settled in Shelter Island and gotten married. In 1981, she found herself at his surprise birthday party at the Ram’s Head Inn, which her brother James and sister-in-law, Linda had just bought.
It was a revelation.
“Shelter Island seemed simple and beautiful. I had my childhood memories that suddenly became washed in a pink light, and I thought, my girls are getting older, and they would be cozy and safe here. ”
In Montclair, her oldest daughter, Johanna, had been going into 7th grade, active in drama and theatre and was unhappy at being moved away from her friends and favorite activities. In 1984, Jenifer started a theatre program at the Shelter Island School, “ all because of my daughter Johanna, who was about to leave home.”
With her sister-in-law,Linda coerced into being the producer, the first school production was “Our Hearts Were Young and Gay”, because Jenifer had done the play in high school and “it was the only one I knew.”
The theater program was a success, and within a few years, the town had financed and built a new auditorium for the school. Many memorable productions followed; from works by Shakespeare and Oscar Wilde to musicals such as “Oliver”, “The Sound of Music,” “Guys and Dolls”--about 23 shows in all. Meanwhile, Jenifer was finishing her college degree, and working toward her teaching certificate because someone told her she should really be an English teacher.
When Lydia Axelrod, then Shelter Island School District Superintendent hired Jenifer as a full-time English teacher in 1995, Jenifer remembers Axelrod telling her, “You will always be controversial.”
“Boy was that prescient.”
For four years, she taught the Gifted and Talented program at The Shelter Island School, finding creative ways to challenge and excite the best students. For a unit on creativity, her students contacted local artists and interviewed them about their work. Which explains why one morning at 7am Billy Joel, international singing star and Long Island Boy, sat down for a breakfast interview with her students, conducted at the counter in Carol’s Luncheonette.
As a middle-school English teacher, Jenifer was committed to getting students out of the classroom and into the community, encouraging them to explore and to push themselves into the unfamiliar, and loudly advocating education “outside the box.” Her methods were unorthodox.
“There is so much juice in these kids…. It’s malpractice the ways the tests are used. Students need to feel relevant to their own education. They are told to think out of the box, but then we put them in boxes.”
But not everyone agreed with her teaching methods, and in 2006 she was suspended from teaching for two years as she fought a series of charges that were later withdrawn. By 2008, she was back in the classroom, teaching high school.
The next April she took twenty sophomores to the Manor House at The Mashomack Preserve for an overnight writing workshop she developed called the “Writes of Spring.” “I wanted to use Mashomack as a catalyst for writing.” The students kept journals, played trust games, wrote poetry and prepared meals together. It was a memorable experience for all, and the “Writes of Spring” became an annual school event.
She retired from teaching in 2012.
Truthfully, retiring is not a word you would ever use to describe Jenifer. Her recent projects include writing “Coming of Age” a one-woman show that she has performed twice on Shelter Island. In 2012, she performed in a staged reading of “Love, Loss & What I Wore” by Nora and Delia Ephron to a standing ovation. On August 29th, she’ll perform, “Red Hot Patriot” a one-woman-show based on the life of Molly Ivins as part of the Shelter Island Library’s Friday Night Dialogues.
After finding each other ten years ago on Match.com, Jenifer and Tom Maxson recently celebrated their one-year wedding anniversary. She wasn’t so sure about computer dating, but once they met she says, “it was like a Petri dish.”
Why this burst of activity and creativity at a time when some would kick back and spend more time spooning mango and banana into the mouth of their adorable grandson? Because says Jenifer, Shelter Island won’t let her. “This island is a crucible. The beauty of it is relentless…. if you don’t find an outlet it could crush you. You’ve got to tap into it. You’ve got to be productive.”